Change feels unnatural because you are asking yesterday’s habits to build tomorrow’s life.

CREATIVITY

WHAT THIS MEANS

Change feels wrong because everything automatic in you was built for the previous version of your life. Your habits, reactions, and instincts are all optimised for how things were, so the new behaviour arrives without any support and has to be produced deliberately every time. That awkwardness is not a signal that you are doing it wrong. It is what the transition actually feels like from inside.

Expect the unnatural feeling and stop treating it as feedback. Keep the new behaviour going long enough for it to acquire its own momentum, which usually takes longer than expected. Familiarity arrives on the other side of repetition, not before it.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Which habit of yours belongs to a life you no longer want?

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