The pass you skipped because you wanted the glory is the play your team remembers.

Teammates keep a very accurate record of the moments you chose yourself. The shot you took when somebody was open does not read as confidence from the bench, it reads as information about whether you can be relied on. One greedy play is forgivable. A pattern of them changes how people play around you.

Watch your next game for the moment the selfish option is available and take the other one. Pass it even when you are fairly sure you could have scored. Trust is built in exactly those situations, and spent in them too.