You can be mad at God and still talk to him. That’s a relationship, not a rebellion.

Anger directed at someone is a form of still being in contact with them. Silence is the real break. Being furious and saying so keeps the connection open, which is why the angriest conversations happen between people who have not given up on each other. Politeness is not the same as closeness.

Next time you are angry, say the angry version rather than the acceptable one. Out loud, or on paper where nobody will read it. The same applies to your parents and your friends, where the careful, filtered version usually solves nothing.