The best part of the concert might be the drive home talking about it.

Shared experiences get finished afterward, not during. In the room you are mostly separate, each with your own version, and the drive home is where it gets compared, argued over and turned into the thing you will both remember. That conversation is not a postscript; it is where the evening becomes something you own together rather than something you each attended.

Protect the journey home instead of spending it on your phones. Ask what the best part was and actually listen to an answer that differs from yours. The same applies to games, films and bad parties: half the value is in the twenty minutes afterward.