Some relatives know your history so well they struggle to notice your present.

Some people keep an old file on you and never update it. They remember the anxious teenager, the one who was bad with money, the one who could not be relied on, and they respond to that person instead of the one in front of them. It is rarely malice; it is just that familiarity stops looking closely. Being the most known can mean being the least seen.

Do not spend years trying to argue your way into an updated version. Live the current life and let it speak, and get accurate reflection from people who met you recently. Some relatives catch up eventually and some do not.