A dent in the door doesn’t change where the car can take you. Stop staring at the dent.

RESILIENCE

WHAT THIS MEANS

Damage attracts attention out of all proportion to its effect. A mark on something you own becomes the first thing you see, while the thing itself works exactly as it did before. Fixing your focus on the flaw shrinks your sense of what is still available to you. The dent is visible and the function is unchanged.

Ask whether the imperfection actually stops you doing anything. If it does not, use the thing deliberately this week and let the mark sit there. Attention is limited, and you get to decide where it goes.

A QUESTION TO SIT WITH

Which flaw are you staring at instead of driving somewhere?

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