1,346 thoughts

Adversity, Pressure & Resilience

Failure as instruction, and keeping a bad stretch from becoming your whole story.

theme resilience 1,346

Twelve of the 1,346, with the question each one ends on. Open one to read the explanation that sits between them.

“The person replaying a loss is finding a use for a result they did not want.”

Are you still turning over a loss, hoping to find something usable?

“Your comeback begins when pain stops getting the final word.”

What would you begin if the past stopped having the final say?

“The boss level is hard because you’re almost at the end of the world. Keep going.”

Which hard part are you near the end of, not the start?

“A kite rises because of the tension on the string. Take away the pull and it drops.”

Where is tension in your life keeping you airborne?

“Do not rush past disappointment so quickly that you miss what it knows.”

What disappointment did you hurry away from before understanding it?

“Finishing in last place still gives you a time to beat. Walking off the course gives you nothing to measure.”

What did you walk away from before it was finished?

“Not knowing what you want to do with your life at nineteen isn’t a problem. It’s just being nineteen.”

Which unanswered question about your future keeps nagging you?

“People can spend years protecting themselves from an event that happened only once.”

Which single bad experience still sets your rules?

“Being captain means taking the blame in public and giving the credit away. That pressure is the job.”

When did you take blame that was not only yours?

“Being the kid who handles everything at home makes you capable. It doesn’t mean you shouldn’t get help.”

What do you handle alone that someone would share?

“Healing isn’t a straight line. Some weeks the chart dips and you still showed up. That counts.”

Did you show up during a week your progress went backwards?

“A fallen tree can become shelter for life it never knew existed.”

What came out of your worst collapse that helped someone else?