Good friends text “home safe?” Real ones wait up for the answer.

Both messages are kind and they are not the same thing. One checks a box; the other keeps somebody present until they know you are in, which costs them a little sleep and asks for nothing back. That is the real distinction, between concern that is convenient and concern that takes on a small inconvenience willingly.

Notice who does the second version, and remember it. Then be that for one person this week. Stay up for the answer, send a follow up if the first gets no reply, and let somebody know they were not left to get home unaccounted for.